Hi Doc,A friend of mine introduced me to your material about a year ago, and I just wanted to
thank you. I don't know if I will ever be a master of "The System," but what it has done for me is to allow me to see what is happening more objectively and to do damage control
when I screw up and start reverting to my old wimp-like tendencies.
For the last six months I have been dating a beautiful flight attendant who works for a
Japanese airline. I live in Hawaii and she lives in Osaka, but she is here 4 or 5 times a month. Anyway, during the last 3 months, the relationship has been getting more serious.
To all you skeptical guys out there, listen to this man, Doc Love! He knows of what he speaks! Remember that she is a flight attendant for a major carrier on a major route,
Hawaii to Japan. She gets hit on all the time by handsome airline pilots and vacationing first-class passengers who are doctors, lawyers and celebrities.
However, I, who was until recently a lowly customer service agent for the same airline and am now a poor student once again living with his parents, am the one she chooses to
spend time with whenever she is in Hawaii.
When I started going out with Yuko, I would say her interest in me was tepid at best.
Maybe 51%? However, by being a Challenge and by not doing what all the other guys were doing I would say I am in the mid to high 70s and still moving up.
For myself, the biggest thing I needed to do was to keep from contacting her too often. When we first started going out, there was a strong temptation for me to e-mail her every
chance I could. However, I really restrained myself because Doc Love said that that would chase her away. I would only e-mail her to ask when she was coming and maybe ask
about our mutual acquaintances. I keep the e-mails light and humorous.
After she leaves, I try to wait at least 2 to 3 days before I e-mail her again, but I never get
mushy. The one thing I keep telling myself is to be patient and let things play out
These days I don't even bother asking when she is coming. She just lets me know. The date is already implied.
I'm just wondering, at this point, what's your opinion about all this and are there any recommendations you would make?
Your Loyal Follower in Hawaii,
Danner – who is grateful
